Where to Begin? Here and Now.

I have recently neglected my blogs, but I know that the practice of writing needs to be just that: practiced. So here I am, and there are also the Morning Pages...now I can hear Karen Blixen (Isak Dinesen) saying,

"...But I've gone ahead of my story. He'd have hated that. Denys loved to hear a story told well..." (Isak Dinesen, Out of Africa)*

So let's go back (briefly) to May-June

The workshop which I created for Field's End Writers' Community on Bainbridge Island (delivered in May and June) went well. WORD SOUP© lasted for four weeks, and at the end, the comment forms (and letters) I received from participants were exciting and encouraging. They wished it had lasted longer; they want me to offer it again.

I heard from several participants whose felt their writing improved, expanded and/or "unblocked" as a result of our sessions. That is joyful news indeed, especially considering it was a brand-new workshop. They formed a well-balanced group, and intend to continue as a writing group in the autumn.

If you know of a group which would benefit from WORD SOUP©, please leave a comment and we will explore the possibilities together!

Now, to the present and those Morning Pages: during my week at Rancho La Puerta, I met many interesting people. One of those was Shelby, a long-distance runner and an accomplished, lovely woman. We found that we have mutual acquaintances, and live close enough to visit each other. Shelby rode the ferry over a couple of weeks ago, and we took a long walk, catching up on the latest news in each other's lives.

Shelby recently completed a 50-mile run, and no, that is not a typographical error; FIFTY miles, in one day. So here is respect for her strength, determination, training and persistence!...and she reminded me of a book which I have had for years, called "The Artist's Way."

The Artist's Way was developed by Julia Cameron (it's worth an online search, if you don't know about her). Ms. Cameron is a creative, prolific, successful artist herself, and has helped to free many thousands of other artists through her work. I started her book - which requires a commitment of 12 weeks - twice in the past, but never finished it. After Shelby brought it up, I went home and pulled out my copy.

From what I found written inside, I began the study in the year 2002; I've no idea why I didn't finish it then. The second time I started it was on June 9, 2006.

June 9, 2006. Four months before Katie was diagnosed with cancer.

I don't know what stopped me from finishing it in 2006, either, but remembering that I started it again at that time was - for some reason - a shock to my system. It told me something about my state of mind, right before "the end of the world as we know it."

My family in June 2006

So, I have recommitted to study, practice, and complete it this time. I am writing the Morning Pages each day, reading the weekly chapters and doing the exercises. This time, I am ready, and - of course - it means something different now, because I am different; my life is different and my needs as an artist are different. The timing is perfect.

It struck me that the work I have done in creating WORD SOUP© is somehow connected to "The Artist's Way." The purpose of WORD SOUP© is to bring freedom, joy and inspiration to people who want to begin to write, and to those who once wrote, but have stopped (for whatever reason). It is easy and fun for me to facilitate WORD SOUP© for others, but I also need to practice artistic recovery for myself - for the painter who no longer paints, as well as for the writer who loves to write. "The Artist's Way" will promote that practice for me.

I am absorbing the wisdom, insight and healing offered in the book. Ms. Cameron knows exactly what she is writing about. There are topics covered which bring exactly the medicine I need in different areas of my creative life (including the DVD project). There is an entire section on "Crazymakers," which was tremendously helpful, reminding me that such difficulties occur in many creative endeavors and environments.

I am thankful to God for leading my mom and me to Rancho La Puerta, which led to meeting Shelby, who led to my renewed commitment to "The Artist's Way." Write on!

*I've been reading books about the "Happy Valley Set," a group of European expatriates who settled in what was then British East Africa (now Kenya) in the early-to-mid-20th century. There was a murder, never officially solved, which took place there, and I wanted to know about it. I found a copy of the (out-of-print) book, "White Mischief" by Edward Fox, which led to other biographies ("The Bolter," "Too Close to the Sun" and "The Temptress," which led to re-viewing "Out of Africa." All in all, not an inspiring group of people, but an interesting place and time in history.

Field's End Writers' Community

"At the field's end, in the corner missed by the mower
Where the turf drops off into a grass-hidden culvert,
Haunt of the cat-bird, nesting-place of the field-mouse...
One learned of the eternal..." - from "The Far Field," a poem by Theodore Roethke

You may recall reading here about a writer's conference I attended two years ago on Bainbridge Island at lovely IslandWood. The organization which hosted the conference is called Field's End, and local author David Guterson is one of its founders. I attended with a bit of fear and trembling; it felt presumptuous to call myself a "writer," just as it has always felt presumptuous to call myself an "artist," though I majored in art in college and have many years of experience in creative expression.

Criticism of the product - whatever I produced - is part of the classroom experience for an art major, and I internalized all of the many critiques I received, until I began to experience fear and blockage when faced with a blank canvas...so I stopped painting altogether. That's what I call an artistic injury.

There is a wonderful painter/teacher named Flora Bowley whose writing and approach to art (and living) is helping me to re-visit this injury, and to breathe healing energy toward that place. I hope - someday - to attend one of her workshops, and for now, am benefiting from reading and reflecting on her blog postings and newsletters.

Back to writing: after Katie died, writing became a lifeline for me, and I grabbed hold of it, writing freely and frequently. Writing has always felt like a natural outcome of my inclination to talk and to process my feelings verbally. Though I wrote regularly on several blogs (this one, and three on my sidebar: Katie's Comforters Guild, the Katie Gerstenberger Endowment and Hopeful Parents), I didn't think of myself as, nor dare to call myself, a "writer."

I wrote and published "Because of Katie," served as a speaker, was published in magazines, but still the inner critic slid over from the painter-side of my brain and whispered, "...But you SELF-published your book; you're not a REAL writer, yet!" So I was hesitant to even attend this workshop. Thanks to encouragement from warm-hearted friends who also wanted to attend, I went anyway - and loved it.

A post-writer's-workshop function

I've since put my name on the mailing list for Field's End newsletters and email, and due to the inspiration received at the conference, my friends and I formed our own writing group, the "Sh*tty First Draft Writing Group" (the name is a nod to Anne Lamott's advice to budding writers to get your fanny into a chair and make "sh*tty first drafts," saving the editing for later).

A few weeks ago, Field's End put out a call for volunteers, and though I couldn't attend the meeting to learn what they needed, I replied to the call and arranged to meet two of the members of the Core Team afterward. I thought I might be able to help with hospitality, registration and whatnot. It was fun to meet both Barbara and Kathleen; they are welcoming, encouraging, kind and open-minded. We shared a lively brainstorming session, and the result of that meeting is this: I was invited to join, and am now a member of, Field's End's Core Team! It's an exciting step for me.

Field's End recently sent out a questionnaire to its mailing list and received 400 responses; that is a sure sign of a vibrant writers' community! Their mission statement includes these words:

"Field's End serves the writers' community and nurtures the written word through lectures, workshops, and instruction in the art, craft, and profession of writing."

The core team seeks to encourage writers who have not yet started, and desire to do so, as well as those who are farther down the path of writing; those who have self-published as well as those who have a publisher. It's a welcoming organization, not a snobbish/exclusive one, and I sense that there will be no artistic injuries inflicted here; perhaps even repair and restoration may come to those who have been silenced by an inner (or an outer) critic. I can hardly wait to see what unfolds.

September (GOLD) News

One of my favorite bloggers, Stephanie Nielson of "The NieNie Dialogues" and author of "Heaven is Here" has posted about Childhood Cancer. In that same posting, she has generously endorsed my book, "Because of Katie." Thank you, Stephanie!

Stephanie (also known by her readers as NieNie) survived an airplane crash which caused burns over more than 80% of her body. She writes a joyful, funny, sweet and real blog about her life as the mother of five children, spanning the years before and after the accident. The crash happened on the one-year anniversary of Katie's passing, so the date was very significant to me. Stephanie's journey - physical, emotional and spiritual - back from death continues to inspire me and thousands of others.

In case you didn't know, September is Pediatric Cancer Awareness Month (think "gold ribbon" when you see the pink one for breast cancer awareness). Many of our friends and acquaintances know about childhood cancer, and are committed to supporting research for better cures and treatments plans. They have started foundations, non-profit organizations, organized fundraisers, written articles, lobbied Congress, volunteered at camps and spoken freely about what they know - and what they wish they didn't know.

Clearly, it is neither wise nor acceptable to poison people - particularly sick people, especially growing children - in an attempt to cure them. But traditional chemotherapy and radiation are poison, and often lead to physical impairments like hearing loss, heart trouble and - if you can imagine the horror - secondary cancers. So a child who is cured in his youth may be diagnosed with a new cancer (not a relapse of the original disease, but an entirely new cancer) when he is older. After enduring the worst kind of sickness, this is cruel and unusual punishment.

We founded the Katie Gerstenberger Endowment for Cancer Research when Katie was in hospice care. She wanted us to direct the funds to cure cancers like the one she had (adrenocortical carcinoma). While childhood cancer is rare, adrenocortical carcinoma is extremely uncommon among that rarity, so we expanded the purpose of her endowment beyond that one form of the disease. To date, Katie's endowment is funded with nearly $193,000, and contributed $6,963 in this past year to the Ben Towne Center for Childhood Cancer Research at Seattle Children's Hospital. We are grateful to our family and friends who have helped to build this fund, as well as moved and relieved to see progress in the treatment and cure of cancer in these six short years since Katie passed away. With awareness, inspiration and financial support, it will come even faster - to children and adults who suffer from the many forms of cancer, and to those who suffer from the horrific, medieval torture-chamber-variety of treatments that have been all that is available to offer them, up until now.

To see the killer of my daughter (cancer) being brought to justice (wiped out) is profoundly gratifying to me mentally, emotionally and viscerally. If you are interested in joining this effort, please follow the links in the text in this posting to find out more.

To Dr. Michael Jensen and his colleagues at the Ben Towne Center for Childhood Cancer Research, to Carin and Jeff Towne (and everyone at the Ben Towne Foundation), to all who work tirelessly to make a better world for the sick, and for those who love them: you have my heartfelt thanks. And to Stephanie Nielson: thank you for caring about all of us who are touched by childhood cancer, and for using your blog to bless your readers!